Mix For a Girl

Mix For a Girl
Created by: bootylicious
Tracks: 19
Length: 01:15:19
Keywords 1. reflect
2. mellow
3. pretty
Created on 5/29/06 3:15pm
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This is a mix meant to be given to a girl (or guy) that holds your interest.

The purpose of a mix like this is not to send 'hidden messages' to a person. That can be generally annoying.. it is not meant to say 'hey, look at me, I want you and I'm trying desperately to tell you that without having to actually tell you that'.. it doesn't work that way. Thats too overt, obvious, strong, and desperate. It is meant to slip youself effortlessly (well, it took ME effort to make this) into someone's mind.. to establish a cornerstone, build a base to work from.

Unless, of course you already have the girl, then all this thought and planning is pointless and you may as well throw whatever you want on there. Or if they're a pretentious bitch. Then they'll probably hate this, and you for making it. In which case she's no good for you anyways. Or too good for you depending on how you look at it.

tracklist

1 Arcade Fire : Neighborhood #1 (Tunnels)
I'm not really an Arcade Fire fan.. in fact, this is pretty much the only song I've heard that I like, but I do love it. Its a great song to start a mix off with.
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Track 1 from Funeral
Length: 00:04:48
Year: 2004
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I'm not really an Arcade Fire fan.. in fact, this is pretty much the only song I've heard that I like, but I do love it. Its a great song to start a mix off with.
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2 Bloc Party : This Modern Love
Again, not generally a fan of the band, but I still love the song. Maybe it has sentimental value, I dunno. Its got a nice beat, yet is still soft and reflective in a way.
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Track 2 from Silent Alarm
Length: 00:04:25
Year: 2005
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Again, not generally a fan of the band, but I still love the song. Maybe it has sentimental value, I dunno. Its got a nice beat, yet is still soft and reflective in a way.
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3 Coldplay : Don't Panic
Ok, now this is the last of the bands that I actually hate but still have to put on here. I despise Coldplay, yet I just can't help but love this song. Girls generally ("generally" means i just made a gneralization, so don't get all pissy at me if you're a girl and don't like Coldplay.. besides I commend you for that) go apeshit for Coldplay, unless they're pretentious bitches, in which case you shouldn't be putting half this music on here anyways.

Besides you can't just give someone a mixtape full of great music that they've never heard of and expect them to love it. You have to give them something familiar that you know they'll come back for, and before you know it the rest of the music will grow on them and they'll be begging you for more!
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Track 3 from Parachutes
Length: 00:02:17
Year: 2000
Track Description:
Ok, now this is the last of the bands that I actually hate but still have to put on here. I despise Coldplay, yet I just can't help but love this song. Girls generally ("generally" means i just made a gneralization, so don't get all pissy at me if you're a girl and don't like Coldplay.. besides I commend you for that) go apeshit for Coldplay, unless they're pretentious bitches, in which case you shouldn't be putting half this music on here anyways.

Besides you can't just give someone a mixtape full of great music that they've never heard of and expect them to love it. You have to give them something familiar that you know they'll come back for, and before you know it the rest of the music will grow on them and they'll be begging you for more!
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4 The Sea and Cake : The Kiss
The Sea and Cake is one of my recent favorite bands.. and this is one of my favorite songs.. not many vocals in this song, but the music is awesome.
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Track 4 from The Biz
Length: 00:03:48
Year: 1995
Track Description:
The Sea and Cake is one of my recent favorite bands.. and this is one of my favorite songs.. not many vocals in this song, but the music is awesome.
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5 Snow Patrol : Same
I used to dislike Snow Patrol for no real reason.. then I gave them a chance and realized how much I actually like them. This song is really beautiful sounding, the vocals are so calming.
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Track 5 from Final Straw
Length: 00:03:55
Year: 2004
Track Description:
I used to dislike Snow Patrol for no real reason.. then I gave them a chance and realized how much I actually like them. This song is really beautiful sounding, the vocals are so calming.
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6 Beulah : Don't Forget to Breathe
Beulah can generally be a bit funky, but this song is actually rather mellow, and the vocals so calming and soft.. this one is for the this is a really pretty song that can help take away from the overt loveiness of the rest of the songs.
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Track 6 from Yoko
Length: 00:03:56
Year: 2003
Track Description:
Beulah can generally be a bit funky, but this song is actually rather mellow, and the vocals so calming and soft.. this one is for the this is a really pretty song that can help take away from the overt loveiness of the rest of the songs.
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7 Cake : Mexico
A great song to follow Beulah.. You don't want to be overt with the mix you make for a girl.. obvious "hidden messages" generally annoy.. the object is not to come on too strong, rather to slip yourself into her mind stealthily. This song will help mask the obviousness of some of the other songs on this album.
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Track 7 from Prolonging the Magic
Length: 00:03:26
Year: 1998
Track Description:
A great song to follow Beulah.. You don't want to be overt with the mix you make for a girl.. obvious "hidden messages" generally annoy.. the object is not to come on too strong, rather to slip yourself into her mind stealthily. This song will help mask the obviousness of some of the other songs on this album.
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8 The Divine Comedy : Songs of Love
I love the Divine Comedy.. while generally the vocals sound like a lounge singer, this song strays well from that and makes for a nice, "pretty" sound and gets back to the purpose of this mix.
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Track 8 from Casanova
Length: 00:03:26
Year: 1996
Track Description:
I love the Divine Comedy.. while generally the vocals sound like a lounge singer, this song strays well from that and makes for a nice, "pretty" sound and gets back to the purpose of this mix.
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9 Stars : Romantic Comedy
I haven't really heard much of Stars. In fact, this is the only song I've actually heard. It was put on a mix for me by a really great friend.. actually several of the songs on this mix were put on mixes for me by her. In fact, I would have to credit her with me getting into Snow Patrol. Anyhow, if all their music sounds like this, I think I would like them.. but I've never had the chance to hear anything else yet.

Anyways, this is a great song, the male/female combo vocals do great.
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Track 9 from Heart
Length: 00:04:20
Year: 2004
Track Description:
I haven't really heard much of Stars. In fact, this is the only song I've actually heard. It was put on a mix for me by a really great friend.. actually several of the songs on this mix were put on mixes for me by her. In fact, I would have to credit her with me getting into Snow Patrol. Anyhow, if all their music sounds like this, I think I would like them.. but I've never had the chance to hear anything else yet.

Anyways, this is a great song, the male/female combo vocals do great.
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10 Billy Bragg & Wilco : California Stars
I was never a big fan of Wilco, mainly because I had only heard their latest albums, didnt like them that much, and was quite annoyed by all the people that where orgasming all over them.

Then I heard this great alt-country band (what?? weird.. country) that did a couple albums with the fantastic Billy Bragg, only to find out later that it was the same Wilco that all the indie kids were gushing over.

Anyways, I still prefer the Billy Bragg/Wilco albums far more than their own stuff. This is one of my favorite songs from those albums. Its really pretty (god im using that word a lot on this mix), and I really enjoy the guitar in this song.
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Track 10 from Mermaid Avenue
Length: 00:04:58
Year: 1998
Track Description:
I was never a big fan of Wilco, mainly because I had only heard their latest albums, didnt like them that much, and was quite annoyed by all the people that where orgasming all over them.

Then I heard this great alt-country band (what?? weird.. country) that did a couple albums with the fantastic Billy Bragg, only to find out later that it was the same Wilco that all the indie kids were gushing over.

Anyways, I still prefer the Billy Bragg/Wilco albums far more than their own stuff. This is one of my favorite songs from those albums. Its really pretty (god im using that word a lot on this mix), and I really enjoy the guitar in this song.
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11 Grandaddy : I'm on Standby
So many of the bands on this mix I disliked before ever really giving them a chance. Grandaddy is another one of them.. I finally realized how much I like Grandaddy one day when one of their songs was in a recent snowboarding video that I fell in love with.

I generally don't like computer music.. the main reason I hate the Postal Service. But every once in a while someone comes along that does it quite well.. for example The One AM Radio.. and Grandaddy as well.
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Track 11 from Sumday
Length: 00:03:12
Year: 2003
Track Description:
So many of the bands on this mix I disliked before ever really giving them a chance. Grandaddy is another one of them.. I finally realized how much I like Grandaddy one day when one of their songs was in a recent snowboarding video that I fell in love with.

I generally don't like computer music.. the main reason I hate the Postal Service. But every once in a while someone comes along that does it quite well.. for example The One AM Radio.. and Grandaddy as well.
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12 Optiganally Yours : You're in My Heart
I use this song as an "intermission" of sorts. This is a long mix, and its good to take a little break with something chill and funny. The monkey sounds from the "Polynesian Village" Optigan disc make you smile and add to the intermission effect, breakin the CD up a bit.
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Track 12 from Spotlight On...
Length: 00:02:34
Year: 1998
Track Description:
I use this song as an "intermission" of sorts. This is a long mix, and its good to take a little break with something chill and funny. The monkey sounds from the "Polynesian Village" Optigan disc make you smile and add to the intermission effect, breakin the CD up a bit.
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13 The Church : Under the Milky Way
I know a great place to check out the stars just outside Corvallis. On a clear night you can hike the hill through a meadow of tall grass, silvery with the reflection of the moon. You can see the whole city and the whole sky. Its beautiful.
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Track 13 from Starfish
Length: 00:04:58
Year: 1988
Track Description:
I know a great place to check out the stars just outside Corvallis. On a clear night you can hike the hill through a meadow of tall grass, silvery with the reflection of the moon. You can see the whole city and the whole sky. Its beautiful.
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14 Tears for Fears : Head Over Heels
As long as we're back in the 80s for a moment, why not use some Tears for Fears? Another great song. You may notice this and the last song were also both ganked from the Donnie Darko soundtrack. Thats because its simply an amazing soundtrack. I almost put Duran Duran's Notorious on here, but I didn't think it fit right.
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Track 14 from Songs From the Big Chair
Length: 00:04:09
Year: 1985
Track Description:
As long as we're back in the 80s for a moment, why not use some Tears for Fears? Another great song. You may notice this and the last song were also both ganked from the Donnie Darko soundtrack. Thats because its simply an amazing soundtrack. I almost put Duran Duran's Notorious on here, but I didn't think it fit right.
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15 Rilo Kiley : Rest of My Life
This is one of the few songs where Blake does the full lead vocals. He really has a soft, pretty, calming voice which is why I chose this song.. anyone can dig it.
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Track 15 from Take Offs and Landings
Length: 00:02:10
Year: 2001
Track Description:
This is one of the few songs where Blake does the full lead vocals. He really has a soft, pretty, calming voice which is why I chose this song.. anyone can dig it.
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16 The Shins : New Slang
Ok, for the last time on this mix, I promise, here is another band that I never really liked, out of principal alone. Actually, I'm not really sure what that principal was in the first place. But it doesn't matter, because when I finally did listen to the shins (thanks, again, to the aforementioned person and her mixes) I absolutely fell in love. I can never get their songs out of my head, but that is really a great thing.
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Track 16 from Oh, Inverted World
Length: 00:03:51
Year: 2001
Track Description:
Ok, for the last time on this mix, I promise, here is another band that I never really liked, out of principal alone. Actually, I'm not really sure what that principal was in the first place. But it doesn't matter, because when I finally did listen to the shins (thanks, again, to the aforementioned person and her mixes) I absolutely fell in love. I can never get their songs out of my head, but that is really a great thing.
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17 Six Organs of Admittance : Words for Two
This is probably the prettiest Six Organs... song there is. The soft vocals and mellow guitars make it very accessible. Any sane girl should love it.. hopefully its one of those songs that can turn someone from the darkside of crappy music, though they might not like the rest of Six Organs of Admittance's stuff.
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Track 17 from School of the Flower
Length: 00:01:40
Year: 2005
Track Description:
This is probably the prettiest Six Organs... song there is. The soft vocals and mellow guitars make it very accessible. Any sane girl should love it.. hopefully its one of those songs that can turn someone from the darkside of crappy music, though they might not like the rest of Six Organs of Admittance's stuff.
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18 Simon & Garfunkel : The Only Living Boy in New York
Yes, I am using this song again, just like I said I would. I can't help it.. its just such a great song and fits so well right here near the end of this mix. Its a really beautiful sounding song by an absolutely amazing band. Any good girl (or guy) should love this song.

I like the feel of this song at the end of a mix.. its contemplative and reflective.

When I hear this song I get a picture in my head.. the thought of riding in a car on a winter afternoon watching the scenery, tall snowy mountains, pass by in the distance. Its a good feeling, and a place I'd really like to be. I've been there, and I hope I can be there again.
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Track 18 from Bridge Over Troubled Water
Length: 00:03:57
Year: 1970
Track Description:
Yes, I am using this song again, just like I said I would. I can't help it.. its just such a great song and fits so well right here near the end of this mix. Its a really beautiful sounding song by an absolutely amazing band. Any good girl (or guy) should love this song.

I like the feel of this song at the end of a mix.. its contemplative and reflective.

When I hear this song I get a picture in my head.. the thought of riding in a car on a winter afternoon watching the scenery, tall snowy mountains, pass by in the distance. Its a good feeling, and a place I'd really like to be. I've been there, and I hope I can be there again.
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19 Iron and Wine : The Trapeze Swinger
This is absolutely one of my favorite Iron and Wine songs. Its a great song to end an awesome mix with. Its super long and every time you think its about to end it just keeps going. Like the last song, this is another contemplative and reflective song. Meant for spacing out, watching scenery while moving, watching scenery while staying still. The perfect time, the perfect mood, the perfect song for me to float into your head. It serves its purpose, it ends the CD, and it leaves you feeling good, relaxed, and happy.
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Track 19 from In Good Company Soundtrack
Length: 00:09:29
Year: 2005
Track Description:
This is absolutely one of my favorite Iron and Wine songs. Its a great song to end an awesome mix with. Its super long and every time you think its about to end it just keeps going. Like the last song, this is another contemplative and reflective song. Meant for spacing out, watching scenery while moving, watching scenery while staying still. The perfect time, the perfect mood, the perfect song for me to float into your head. It serves its purpose, it ends the CD, and it leaves you feeling good, relaxed, and happy.
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You are the first I know of that also aren't very big on Arcade Fire, Bloc Party and Coldplay like myself. That's seriously strange, and I like you for that. I still haven't given Snow Patrol a real chance to get into my system though. Anyhow: +++++++++++ for you and this mix.
6/30/07 10:43am
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here here... hasn't been updated in a bit..
http://www.s endspace.com/file/2pvq23
4/18/07 11:40pm
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Love it
12/16/06 4:11pm
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my favorite of yours.
plus 5 for cake
10/5/06 2:17pm
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I love this mix because I already had put some of the songs (2, 7, 10, 13, 18) on mixes for someone already. Seems like I was in the right mindset.
9/10/06 8:53am
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i would melt if i received this. love it all.

plus billy bragg and wilco . . . totally amazing albums.

i still don't know how to give many points . . . sorry.
7/19/06 3:28pm
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The sea and cake is awesome.
6/22/06 7:24am
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You put some good tracks on here, but I disagree that pretentious = bitch! It's okay to like obscure music! And some of the BEST tapes I've ever gotten were 100% bands I'd never heard before. It's exciting when you have 90 minutes of new songs!
6/12/06 7:23pm
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I like Coldplay...and being a girl I suppose I fit that generalization....somewhat. I don't think I would ever (or have ever) go apeshit for Coldplay. Honestly, Chris Martin just looks a bit creepy, which would keep me from going apeshit.
6/4/06 5:04pm
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This is a pretty fine mix. Although I agree... 2 songs from the Donnie Darko OST and 3 from Garden State (or 4 artists from Garden State)... I'd try to stray from those just from principle alone, but as acclaimed and loved as both those movies are, they totally accomplish the purpose of the mix. And I'd totally swoon if a boy gave me a mix with that S&G song on it.
5/30/06 10:55am
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what can i say i have high standards
5/29/06 6:11pm
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"Girls generally ("generally" means i just made a gneralization, so don't get all pissy at me if you're a girl and don't like Coldplay.. besides I commend you for that) go apeshit for Coldplay, unless they're pretentious bitches, in which case you shouldn't be putting half this music on here anyways." I like how matt commends girls who don't like coldplay and then calls the pretentious bitches, he is a hard man to please.
5/29/06 5:57pm
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Despite my flaming heterosexuality, if you gave me this mix, I'd be yours.

Big points for 'The Church' cut -- but following it with the TFF song is a little too 'Donnie Darko' for my tastes.

All in all, I think your motivation and descriptions for making this mix are radical. Thanks for putting so much time and effort into this -- +5.
5/29/06 5:06pm
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fixed it. srry about that.
5/29/06 5:04pm
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HTF did you do that?!~
5/29/06 5:01pm
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Sadly, the first mix I ever made was for a guy... it turned out horribly and he never spoke to me because it was too, as you put it, "obvious and desperate." This one's not one that would do that though. Good job, but minus for the Bloc Party. Don't enjoy Rilo Kiley much either >_>
5/29/06 4:35pm
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I will look past my absolute hatred for bloc party because you put HEAD OVER HEELS on here, which according to me is the best song ever.
5/29/06 3:56pm
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Corey/Eric I broke your site again. Look at the top of this mix. its weird.
5/29/06 3:18pm